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Tuesday, 09 October 2007

  • WE ARE MOVING (website, that is)...

    [L] Hi friends!

    We just want to thank you for taking part in our lives, through keeping up with our blogs. =) It's been a joy to share our daily musings and adventures of life overseas with you. Writing about some of our adventures has also been a good way for us to process our "transition" here.  =)  And it helps us feel like we are staying more connected with you.

    Before we left the states,  we signed up with blogspot.  Then, we found that xanga (this site) was easier to use and switched over to xanga. 

    Then, we made our moved over here to EA.  And then, we find that neither of these sites can normally be accessed here on this side of the world!!  But luckily, we have our "methods".  =)

    But since being here, we find that xanga is sooo slow here (we are actually lucky to even have access to it at all)!! It takes forever to load!  I can start the page, walk away, do my homework, come back, and it's still loading. So, sometimes, I am just too tired to wait for it, and thus, the blogging happens less and less frequently...

    SO... we decided to move back to blogspot. Since it is powered by google, it seems to have faster engine and just runs quicker. Such is the powerhouse of mega-company.

    So... it's official. We are moved back to blogspot...

    From now on, please refer to:   http://edwinlilly.blogspot.com 

    Thanks!! =)



Monday, 24 September 2007

  • some risky business...

    [L] So, as you recall, a few days ago, our neighbors from downstairs paid a visit to us because there was something that was leaking from the balcony...  The story continues.

    So, today, our landlord came to attempt to fix this mysterious leak.  This time, he brought with him a repairman, who seemed equipped with a caulk-seal gun and some plastic tubing.  After 30 to 40 minutes of them talking, working, banging, crawling around the balcony...  The repairman begins to take action.

    He climbs completely over the railing of the 4th floor balcony.

    He steadied himself by putting one arm around the railing, while the other arm is used to insert the plastic tubing in a pipe.  Meanwhile, his sock-covered-feet was on the ledge of the balcony.  He was completely OUTSIDE, almost dangling off our balcony, nothing to keep from falling except his feet to steady himself on the ledge while one arm holding onto the railing.

    Oh yes, did I mention that he did take some safety precautions.  He had our landlord hold onto his arm (the one arm that is gripping the balcony). In the case of a fall, will our little landlord be still holding on to this man's forearm and heroically rescue him from falling 4 stories?! We don't even want to think about it.

    Is this legal?!!  Back home, there is such a thing as workers comp. Work-related injuries lawsuit. Protection of the worker. Safety-code. Policy and procedures manual.   But here, apparently, things just work a lot differently. Apparently, risking your life to dangle on a 4th floor balcony to fix a leaky pipe is okay.  It might even be normal.  (Just be sure not to fall, that's all.)

    We just feel for them.  Life and work is hard here. And no one is there to vouch for you if you get hurt. 

Saturday, 22 September 2007

  • the peephole

    [L]:  I generally love peepholes because they are useful in this dangerous world.  When there is an unexpected knock on the door, I can always look out to see who is standing out there before I open the door.  You know, it brings security.  I have observed lots of different peepholes in the doors through the different apartment complexes that I've inhabited, and mostly, they do quite a good job.  By this I mean, people on the outside can't see me.  But I on the inside can see them.  Granted, the people standing on the outside can often tell if lights go on or off inside through little pinhole.  Or even, if there is a light, and someone stands before it, you can tell that it's somehow blocked by a shadow.  But beyond that, in general, one can't get too much more information standing on the outside.

    Well, my little theory came to a screeching halt.  (Of course, like always, when it applies to life on this side of the world!)  It was a quiet Sunday afternoon. Suddenly, there was loud banging on the door.  I turn to look at Edwin. Are we expecting company?  No....?  Oh okay.  As I slowly march towards the front door, the banging continues at a steady paced interval. 

    Suddenly, I took a peep out of our peephole.  And at once, there is an eyeball that is also peering BACK at me!!! Yikes!!!  Immediately, I hear (in a different language of course), "AH! Helloo there! How are you?  Can you open the door?"  KnockKnockKnockKnockKnock! "OPEN UP!!! I SEE YOU." KnockKnockKnockKnockKnock! And this continues even louder and more impatiently.

    That is when I freaked out and ran off to find Edwin.  Meanwhile the door sounds like its taking a brutal beating. It turns out that Edwin recognized them as the lovely neighbors downstairs.  (Remember they barged in our place a year ago, when they claimed our toilet was leaking?? Please refer to entry last fall.)  Well, this time, we have a better understanding of the language and could communicate a teensy better. And after talking to them, this time there is ANOTHER leak coming from a mysterious source out on the balcony.  And this time, since we could communicate, we and the neighbors were on much friendlier terms.  They even said bye and thank you before they left...

    Anyhow... my question is,  what is the purpose of the peephole if both sides could see one another.  Perhaps I shouldn't call it a peephole...  Maybe there's another name for it.  I just can't think of any at this moment...

Thursday, 20 September 2007

  • my desire to be a morning person...

    [L] It has been my desire to be a morning person for so long!  When I read bio's and books of people that I admire and respected, many of them have one trait that I admire:  They wake up early at the crack of dawn before the world hustles and bustles.  Some like the brisk air of the early sunrise while they do their morning jog/walk.  Others spend their morning reading, reflecting, and having personal QTs.  And others read the newspapers, drinks coffee, or watch the morning news.. before heading off to work, school, or wherever.

    Unfortunately for me, I fit in none of these categories.  I cannot drink coffee (unless it's de-caff) or I experience some signs of tachycardia (heart beating fast).  And the rest of those things... I can only dream about doing at a different time-- which is late late night. For me, I stay awake longer than the rest of the world into the wee hours of the night.

    The only time I ever remembering waking up at the crack of dawn recently was when I was jet-lagged. (Of course, this doesn't count the days when I used to work at the hospital when my shifts sometime began at the crack of dawn!)  The first few weeks of coming back here, I would fall asleep at 9pm and wake up at 5am.  It was beautiful. I sat on the windowsill and watched the sunrise.  I had good reflection time, good QTs.  I saw the people down below setting up their carts and shops.  I saw the workers riding their bikes and scooters, dragging behind them loads of their workgear.  And then the big steamers (which steamed at least a hundred steamed buns at a time) would hiss in unison as it was cooking, getting ready for hungry people to buy their breakfast.  Over in the far side, I would see chickens in cages, being brought out for sale. And groups of people would squat on low stools, as they gathered to eat their morning rice-porridge.

    For some reason, getting to watch all of this brought a sense calmness over my heart. Perhaps it's knowing that I don't have to rush to be in class or somewhere until another couple of hour or so. I have time to entertain random thoughts of life.  What would my life be if I was born on this side of the world?  What would it be like to be these people downstairs, working so hard to sell steamed buns to make a living.  What would my future hold?  What are my dreams and passion? 

    Unfortunately, over time, my jet-lag wore out.  And my schedule began to shift later and later.  Until it's back to me being a night person again.  I realize that the reason I am a night owl is because at night, when things are calm, the world is asleep, I can have some time to recover from the "busyness" of the day.  Life is so busy, and it just passes by if I don't stop to think and appreciate what I've been given.  However, I sure just WISH I could do that early morning, instead of late in the night.  But for now, I guess that'll have to do...  

    My only solution to counter this busy world, this busy life... is to find pockets of time when things are still.  And hopefully, that I get to pause...even just for a moment, to appreciate it. 

  • adventure in the eggs

    [L]:  This event happened sometime ago.  But today, I remembered it because I was out and about, and was buying eggs.  One of my foreign friends here was trying to bake a cake.  She went down to the local market and bought some eggs.  Simple right?  Wrong.  Of course things can't be that simple.  As she finished preparing to mix all her ingredients together, she reached for the eggs and begin to methodically crack them one by one.  To her horror, inside each egg was a somewhat developed embryo!  There were signs of beak, beginnings of feather, and other unmentionable things.  She shrieked.  Dumped that egg away, and reached for another.  The same thing.  More signs of beak, beginnings of a feather, and other unmentionable things.  Egg after egg...  That's when Edwin and I came over and saw her gripped with disgust.  I too shrieked when I saw the thing.  Bygone was the fun cake-baking experience.

    But then it hits me!  Flashbacks to a memory of childhood. I remember my parents telling me how people can enjoy delicious duck eggs, and when you boil them, you can eat the small developing embryo.  And then it dawned on me that she bought duck eggs instead of chicken eggs.

    So the moral of the story:  Know what eggs you are buying, lest you be shocked when you crack it open. =)